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Showing posts with label Bat Mitzvah idea. Show all posts
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Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Tipping Guidelines for Events

As wedding season is upon us and I've been getting questions from clients about tipping, I thought I would re-post this handy little guild.

All tipping is optional.  Most event professionals include a service or gratuity charge in their bill.  As tipping is always an extra consideration to express gratitude for exceptional service, the following list reflects a general industry standard.


Who receives the tip?


How much?

Who pays the tip?

Officiant (Minister, Rabbi, Priest, Pastor, etc.)


Minimum of $10 - $100, maximum depends on size of wedding and relationship to official.


The groom gives the tip in a marked envelope to the best man to pass to the official after the ceremony or Consultant.

Officiant (Non-Clergy, Marriage Commissioner, Justice of the Peace, etc.)


$10 and up.  Some may not accept money due to conduct restrictions.


Same as clergy members.

Altar boys, sextons, cantors, church organists


If not covered by the church, $5 to $25 is appropriate.

Ceremony Host/Hostess or Consultant when bill is paid.

Florist, Baker, Photographer

Not customary – exceptions if extraordinary services were extended (10 – 15% if tip is given for extraordinary service).

Reception Host or Consultant

Ceremony Musicians


15% of services or $25.00 flat per musician.

Best man pays as services end.  Best man or consultant.


Limousine Service

Usually included in quote, otherwise 15 – 20%.


Reception Host or Consultant

Delivery Truck Driver (including floral deliveries)


$5 - $25 per person

Consultant or staff member present may deliver tip for client at delivery if driver performs extra service.


Coat Room Attendants or Powder Room Attendant

$0.50 per person or a pre-negotiated flat fee

If it’s not part of your facility bill, it’s paid after reception.


Caterer, banquet manager, waiters, waitresses, table captains, maitre d’hotel.


15% (which will generally be split amongst them) if not included in bill.


If included in bill, pay with entire charge, if not, pay after reception.


Bartenders


15% - 20% of the liquor bill, if not included in bill.


Pay with bill or after reception.

DJ/Reception Musicians


$20 - $25 per musician, 5% - 15% for DJ


Best man or Consultant hold tip until after performance.

Hair & Makeup, Manicurist, Masseuse

10 – 15% of total bill


You may pay yourself, or give the funds to coordinator to pay.

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Bar or Bat Mitzvah Website



Cute idea from My Event for all the in information that goes along with planning a Bar or Bat Mitzvah!